So you've removed the valveblock, and dismantled it and none of the valves were sticking and all of the valves and springs were in the correct places? If that's the case I can only assume that something you've told me along the way isn't quite right.
If the 1-2 shift is occurring and at the correct speed then the kickdown cable is correctly adjusted and the governor and throttle valve are working OK, and if you still have REVERSE then the rear clutch and band are working, so that really only leaves the 2-3 shift valve to be at fault, or a mistake in the diagnosis up to that point. I have to say that I was sceptical of the valve being stuck, because although in theory it could happen and cause the problem you have, I can't remember the last time, if ever that I've actually had it happen. The only thing I could think is that something within the valveblock has blocked the governor pressure reaching the end of the 2-3 shift valve, or there's a crack that's allowing the fluid pressure to be lost before it gets to the valve, but if that were the case you should have noticed that while it was all in bits.
My advice to you now won't be popular, but it's really your only course of action, and that's to start again from the very beginning. Two things are certain, firstly if there is a fault it's in there somewhere waiting to be found, and secondly you're either missing it, or misdiagnosing the fault in the first place.