Another observation. Until recently I had a 1983 Porsche 928 Euro S - 4.7L, 300hp, 3 speed auto derived from the MB box used in their Grosser 600(5.7L). The rear axle was 2.75 giving 26.9 mph/1000. First gear would run to 100kph at red-line of 6200rpm. The impressive part was that in normal suburban driving the changes were very close to imperceptible.Despite the engine being fairly peaky - it didnt start to boogie until 3500rpm - you could drive quite fast on windy roads without ever worrying about what gear you were in. There was an electric kick-down switch under the throttle that fired a relay on the box to go down a gear if the road speed was acceptable. Many users fitted an extra switch so you could downshift without going full throttle - very civilized.
Anyway, for a 3 speed box it did an excelent job, easy to live with at any speed, probably because its change points had been well matched to the engine's characteristics. Later models with bigger engines (5.4L DOHC 4 valve) had 4 speed boxes, but their deafult mode was to start off in 2nd, despite having final drives as low as 2.2.
Best option for us might be a modern auto with an ecu that has been hacked and one could play with change points to suit their engine and driving style.